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We have approached yet another divide so sharp and cold it reminds me of the splitting Arctic ice caps. A lot has happened recently in our American political arena. For one, we have a new Supreme Court Justice, Brett Kavanaugh.

No matter where you stand on the issue, it is clear that his nomination, and now confirmation, has created friction, stirred up painful memories for survivors of sexual assault, and raised several questions about morality.

Sexual misconduct allegations emerged which not only split the nation at large, but even seeped down into our small communities. I heard the typical, “Don’t bring up politics, ok?” in countless settings, at school, small dinner parties, high school sporting events, and even at the nail salon.

The inability to cooperate with one another is tearing apart the fabric of our community. Even if we ignore political forums and the endless media wars of CNN vs. FOX or New York Times vs. The New York Post, we, in our casual, day-to day-life, have become so hostile to opening conversations about “controversial” subjects, fearing our inability to remain mannered and responsive.

It is true we can sometimes find ourselves so uncomfortable with polarizing ideas and thoughts that we completely shut off our willingness to talk about anything even somewhat arguable. This is sad. Why is it that we fear an opposing viewpoint so much so that we avoid conversation? Maybe it is because as “kids” we feel constantly undermined, or we feel our voices mean nothing. Maybe it is because of the lack of bipartisanship that is displayed in our country. I do not know the answer. I only offer that we practice here, within the halls of de Toledo, our best efforts to hear, listen, and believe each other. Perhaps what we can learn from one another here can set a standard for how we should behave outside of our walls.